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My mother’s hands

j32whh89 I have limited recollection of my mother taking me by the hand when I was younger. Published: May. 18, 2013 7:00 PM | Full story

Sweeping away the past

4PRQG4O One of my cousins recently sent out a letter about our grandparents on my dad’s side, giving us some details from their lives. Published: May. 14, 2013 7:00 PM | Full story

Me, you and Pamela Anderson

I had forgotten about television star Pamela Anderson until she recently showed up in the news, last month, talking about turning 45. Published: May. 11, 2013 7:00 PM | Full story

Fresh starts and new challenges

Spring, of course, is the season of renewal. It is also a stormy season. If you look around, you will find both signs of rebirth and significant challenges ahead. Published: May. 11, 2013 7:00 PM | Full story

Tom foolery

Seems it’s human nature to push a job onto someone else. Mark Twain’s Tom Sawyer showed his mastery in the famous scene where he tricked his friends into painting his fence so he could go fishing. Throughout my life, I have experienced numerous instances of this ‘painting-the-fence’ phenomenon. Published: May. 4, 2013 7:00 PM | Full story

The Promised Land

At the edge of my grandfather’s garden lay a large, soil-filled area outlined with rocks. A very permanent raised bed, it was the animal graveyard. When a kitten or chick or puppy died, my grandmother gave the children a box and the five siblings picked flowers, assigned roles, rehearsed prayers, and then processed toward the garden cemetery, minister at the head, gravediggers in the rear, all of them singing “On Jordan’s Stormy Banks I Stand.” Published: Apr. 30, 2013 7:00 PM | Full story

Spring housing crisis

There are times when a trip to the woods reveals a particular drama if you simply sit and take your time in one spot. Published: Apr. 27, 2013 7:00 PM | Full story

Gray hairs? Not so bad

This isn’t the first time I’ve written here about getting old, and it probably won’t be the last. I’m getting old, for crying out loud! It’s traumatic! Published: Apr. 24, 2013 11:35 AM | Full story

Supporting Afghan friends

Carolina Friends School students are learning through their partnership with a school in Afghanistan. Published: Apr. 20, 2013 7:00 PM | Full story

I know who I am (better than you)

Plenty of times in my life I have come across someone who has a misconception of me. I’m unsure why, though. Published: Apr. 16, 2013 7:00 PM | Full story

The children on the bus

On school mornings, I often watch the long yellow bus pull up in front of my house and a cluster of backpacked elementary-age children hop on. For so many reasons, I’m glad I’m not one of them. Published: Apr. 13, 2013 7:00 PM | Full story

Giving girls choices

It’s hard to fathom that at 8 years old, my younger daughter could already be married in a developing country. Published: Apr. 9, 2013 7:00 PM | Full story

Ambassador for women’s studies

I often feel that I am a self-appointed ambassador for women’s studies. When I signed up to become a professor, more than 20 years ago, I never thought that I’d have an elevator speech at the ready or become savvy about responding to misperceptions about my field of research and teaching. But I have. Published: Apr. 6, 2013 7:00 PM | Full story

The email that set me free

In March 2010, with a little less than two months to go on my deployment, I was getting near the end of my rope. I’d been back in the closet for more than 14 months and in Iraq since July. I felt like a pot left on the stove too long, boiled down to a smoking, sullen, sarcastic crude. Published: Apr. 2, 2013 7:00 PM | Full story

From an agnostic Christian

I love quotations – from books, from speeches, from my husband, from wherever. Sometimes I will type something someone said or wrote into a list I keep on my computer called “Spice Quotes.” Published: Mar. 30, 2013 7:00 PM | Full story

Diversity means differences

When my mother was a girl, overnights with various aunts, uncles and grandparents were regular weekend events. Her family had lived in this same county since the turn of the 18th century, so everyone was related to each other even if they had no idea how. Upstairs bedrooms were filled with tall double beds, and children piled like pecan logs on top. Published: Mar. 26, 2013 7:00 PM | Full story

From the heart of Africa

It started as an experiment: What happens when you equip a vibrant youth community with the resources to express themselves through hip hop and electronic music? Published: Mar. 23, 2013 7:00 PM | Full story

The barred owl and the beautiful snag

There are days in late winter when anyone with even a shred of common sense would choose to stay home and sit by the fireplace with a hot cup of tea, and a good novel. Published: Mar. 19, 2013 7:00 PM | Full story

Life-changing bike ride

As we noticed the changes in our surroundings, we also noticed how we were changing, mentally and physically. Published: Mar. 12, 2013 7:00 PM | Full story

The final vigil

The aides had just come in, as they did every two hours, to turn Dad over to his other boney haunch. The plan was to keep him off his bottom and the bedsores. Published: Mar. 9, 2013 7:00 PM | Full story

Town Council exacts its price

The recent approval of the University Square redevelopment was a watershed moment for Franklin Street. It brought out the best in the Chapel Hill Town Council, underscoring its commitment to downtown’s revival. Unfortunately, it also brought out the worst in the approval process and at least some council members’ attitudes about business. Published: Mar. 9, 2013 7:00 PM | Full story

Weaver Street West

About a year and a half ago I heard that a food co-op like Weaver Street Market had opened in downtown Burlington. Published: Mar. 2, 2013 7:00 PM | Full story

The silence of men

Men can be full of silences. I grew up in a family of men who didn’t talk much. Published: Feb. 26, 2013 7:00 PM | Full story

The bees’ needs

Every Tuesday night, I have a date with my 11-year-old daughter – and about 70 other people. Published: Feb. 23, 2013 7:00 PM | Full story

Clock ticking for timberdoodle

It’s twilight; a few minutes have passed since a pink-gold January sunset lit up the meadow. I am crouched by the side of the Mason Farm Reserve main trail, flashlight in hand, with camera set low on its tripod, waiting for the first “peents” to fill the air. Published: Feb. 19, 2013 7:00 PM | Full story

Kindness makes us a community

Today, Feb. 17, is Random Acts of Kindness Day. Surely one of the most fun days of the year, we should participate with abandon. Acts of kindness expand our capacity for creativity and nourish our souls. Published: Feb. 16, 2013 7:00 PM | Full story

There’s no library like home

The first thing I did upon coming home from college for winter break was go to the library. I hugged my parents, slapped my sisters briefly upside the head, and, as David Foster Wallace put it, “(got) in a taxi and (said), ‘The library, and step on it.’” Walking into the Chapel Hill Public Library finalized my return home. Published: Feb. 12, 2013 7:00 PM | Full story

Shake, rattle and whoah!

During my youth I hadn’t met a person as prim and proper as Aunt Mary. As a matter of fact, it would take some thinking now to come up with someone as polished and proper as Julia Mary Francis Scarlett Jones. Published: Feb. 9, 2013 7:00 PM | Full story

The long term will be Launch’s real challenge

The Town of Chapel Hill, once a beacon for anti-business sentiment, is trying a novel approach to attract entrepreneurs. It is becoming an entrepreneur itself. Published: Feb. 9, 2013 7:00 PM | Full story

It could be worse

As I stare at the jagged stumps of once-towering pines and hardwoods – graceful trees that shaded the road from summer’s heat, offered privacy to the neighboring homes, and created a verdant barrier against the massive Ambulatory Care Center and its parking lots – I tell myself: Published: Feb. 5, 2013 7:00 PM | Full story


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